When we learn to remove all our HEAVY load of past on our mind, latent, dormant in our sub-conscious mind, like old archives; so worn out that its usefulness is lost. This past load must be discarded, recycled to make us feel lighter and to FEEL the life TODAY.

We also learn that some things can not be modified, amended or changed, as they are facts and realities which must be accepted, as they are. Our resistance to not accepting those hard and harsh truths brings us misery, grief and self punishment. Our continual resisting to WHAT IS becomes self-destructive and we become weaker, sick, lifeless and empty. So we MUST act now, by dissolving the clouds of fantasy and return to our natural self, our real self.

Remember that if morning and noon is sunny, bright & noisy, nights are darker and quiet. This cyclic reality also is IS, you can’t change that. Likewise it is important to ACCEPT problems, disgusting events, unexpected and unbelievable things happening to us, at the time least expected by us. They have to happen and will happen.

Nothing is permanent. Understand the temporary permanence of this WORLD. We can not expect every single day to be sunny, some days it does rain and can be even tempestuous turbulence.

Yet after every dark night, come the bright and smiling rays of Sun bringing vibrations of joy in our life. After the hurt, problems, falls come times of great quality, joy, happiness and peace. That’s reality too. It is bound to happen. No pain in this world is permanent. Remember that all pain DOES END like all happiness and joy. It is cyclic and natural way of life. You have to accept it. So the question is if all that is, what can we do?

Once you are aware of the impermanence of this world and its cyclic nature, you have to understand that the real game starts when you know what is IS and you accept the nature as it IS. Fight it and you hit hard. Yet you do have choices, options and possibilities always.

The REAL opportunities only come when you are hit very hard, when you fall, when you are at your weakest, when you are totally abandoned, thrown out like leftover food. The real strength and talent of YOUR WILL is only activated when you are hit hard.

IT IS not important that you are HIT but how you handle your fall. The success is NOT in getting back and revenge BUT how you carry on, how you deal with the crisis. The crisis is GOING to be there, constantly. If not today, another day. But DO NOT run from it. Face it with courage. Let the worst of the worst come but you are not going to be weak.

You have to be at your best and the strongest when you are at your lowest and weakest point. This is the secret of your own will and your life. It is easy to live, grow in a cocoon, sheltered world of your parents, family but the real challenge is how you grow from a child without this umbilical cord.

- Author Unknown